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How to Improve Your Sex Life with Food (and Why Sexual Dysfunction Can Be An Early Sign of Heart Disease)

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Want to have great sex? See how food can help…

A top cardiologist explains the truth about food and sex. Learn what nutrition has to do with sexual performance and specific foods to eat and avoid for a healthy sex life.

By Joel Kahn, MD • A version of this article was originally published on

The last time I checked, the heart is about three feet above the genitals. So what is a cardiologist doing counseling patients on sexual performance?

In the nearly 30 years I have been caring for heart patients, I have seen over and over that erectile dysfunction (ED) can be an important warning sign to silent heart disease.

Although harder to quantify, the same is probably true for some women with sexual dysfunction. The failure to perform adequately during sexual activities is often a clue to an ailing endothelium.

What Is the Endothelium? And How Does It Get Damaged?

The endothelium is the single layer of cells lining all the arteries of the body. When healthy, the endothelial lining of arteries makes a miraculous gas called nitric oxide that causes arteries to expand or dilate and also helps them resist clotting and atherosclerosis (hardening of the arteries).

The endothelium can be injured throughout the body by poor lifestyle habits, such as smoking and consumption of animal-based and processed foods. Poor sexual performance may result from endothelial damage and may be recognized years before the same disease process causes a heart attack.

Picture this: Draw one circle about the diameter of a Number 2 pencil and another circle that is smaller and about the diameter of a stirrer in a drink side by side. The larger circle is the approximate diameter of a good-sized coronary artery. The smaller circle is approximately the diameter of the pudendal artery, the major blood supply to the penis.

It is easy to see right away that the choice of one more burger, one more sausage, or one more plate of ribs is much more likely to clog the pudendal artery and impair your sexual performance before your heart gives out, even if both are getting clogged from poor lifestyle choices.

Food and Sex: What Does Sex Have to Do With Nutrition?

Food and Sex: What Does Sex Have to Do With Nutrition?

It takes healthy arteries, a healthy endothelium, and a heart capable of pumping out increased blood flow to our pelvis to make it all happen.

For both men and women, the sexual response requires a surge of blood flow through arteries to enlarge specialized tissues (the clinical term for sexual organs) to prepare for sexual play and climax. No increase in blood flow, no sexual performance. And you thought it was all about flowers and champagne!

For example, in one 2007 study published in the International Journal of Impotence Research researchers selected 53 men with erectile dysfunction and had them drink pomegranate juice or a placebo for four weeks.

Pomegranate juice has been shown to reverse endothelial dysfunction (the other ED) and cause artery plaques to reverse in humans. When a global improvement score for achieving an erection was measured after four weeks, the drinking of real pomegranate juice was more likely to deliver the goods and lead to erections.

In another study published in 2014 in the journal Nutrients, 555 diabetic men were surveyed as to their adherence to a Mediterranean diet rich in vegetables and fruits and their ability to achieve erections. The presence of erectile difficulties and particularly severe erectile difficulties was much lower in the plant-strong eaters.

How about nuts? A group of scientists studied 17 men with erectile dysfunction and had them eat 100 grams of pistachio nuts a day. At the end of three weeks, cholesterol values were lower, blood flow measured in the penis was higher, and measures of the ability to have erections were improved.

Why Not Just Take Viagra® to Improve Sexual Health?

Why bother with eating healthy, why not just eat the burger with blue cheese and take the blue pill?

The blue pill, or Viagra®, and the two other available prescription drugs for erectile dysfunction do not work in everyone.

The medications also require a healthy endothelium and healthy arteries capable of providing increased blood flow to work. If the sex organ arteries the size of a swizzle stick are severely diseased, there will be no “bada-boom bada-bing” an hour after taking them. These medications only work by enhancing the natural effects of a healthy endothelium.

How Nitric Oxide Helps Your Sexual Performance

When the lining of the arteries is healthy, and a lot of nitric oxide is made, this miracle gas diffuses into the artery and causes a chemical called cyclic GMP to increase.

Cyclic GMP or cGMP results in the blood vessel relaxing and dilating, but it is a very short-lived chemical. The drugs for erectile dysfunction prevent cGMP from being broken down as fast as normal. The longer cGMP hangs around, the more blood flow will increase (no, that is not where the expression well hung comes from).

But if the endothelium is sick from fatty, toxic blood full of recently ingested animal products and fatty foods, the nitric oxide will not be released as expected and the result will be less than satisfactory.

The biochemistry of the male sexual response is understood better than the female response, but even Viagra® has shown a therapeutic benefit in the sexual response of diabetic women, so the basics are universal.

Why Do Healthy Eaters Have an Easier Time with Peak Sexual Performance?

At present, there is no known dietary agent that mimics the blue pill and directly boosts cGMP by blocking the same enzyme that Viagra® does. However, plant-powered eaters front load the beginning of this pathway by increasing the production of nitric oxide, the miracle gas.

Nitric oxide is generated in the blood vessels by the amino acids L-arginine and L-citrulline cycling back and forth. This system is particularly active when you are under 40 years of age.

If you want to boost your levels of nitric oxide for better overall artery health and superior sexual responsiveness, why not eat healthy foods high in these amino acids?

Foods that are particularly high in L-arginine include pine nuts, peanuts, walnuts, almonds, pistachios, and Brazil nuts. Grains, including oats and wheat germ, also have significant amounts of L-arginine.

And what about L-citrulline? Watermelon has the highest concentration in nature (particularly the white rind), followed by onions and garlic. Just one standard serving of yellow watermelon provides enough L-citrulline to boost sexual performance. My advice is that you might want to stick to watermelon and not onions and garlic to boost your nitric oxide production before going on a date!

Another Way to Supercharge Your Endothelium with Food

There is another way to generate nitric oxide and its blood-flow-enhancing effects. Chemicals called nitrates and nitrites, found in many foods and generated in our saliva, are directly converted to nitric oxide.

You may be thinking I thought nitrates and nitrites are bad for you. In fatty meats, this may be true, as they get converted to nitrosamines, but in the healthiest foods, particularly vegetables, they are a load of fun.

What foods are packed with nitrates, nitrates, and the antioxidants that make them rush to convert to nitric oxide? Which of these can make you master of your domain?

Arugula, rhubarb, kale, Swiss chard, spinach, bok choy, and beets are at the top of the list. Finish your diet off with grapes, pomegranates, apples, and green teas, and you have a dynamite erotic potion that will supercharge your endothelium both in your groin and your heart.

Simple Lifestyle Changes to Keep Your Heart and Your Sex Life Healthy

Nutrition is of course just one part — albeit the biggest part — of an overall heart-healthy lifestyle.

Not smoking, exercising regularly, avoiding diabetes and obesity, and achieving adequate sleep are proven ways to maintain endothelial health and sexual performance.

A low-fat, plant-powered diet along with exercise, stress reduction, no smoking, and social support led many participants on the Esselstyn diet with advanced heart disease to enjoy an improved sexual performance.

You’re Only As Old As Your Arteries

Over 400 years ago, Thomas Sydenham said, “A man is as old as his arteries.”

Four centuries later, we know just how right he was. Eat plants to protect your brain, eat plants to protect your heart, but also eat plants to power your sexual life even if it seems hard at times. What may seem hard will keep you hard.

Editor’s Note: Many factors contribute to a healthy sex life. Blood flow is, of course, only one of them. But it’s an important one, and hopefully, this article gives you some useful insights.

Tell us in the comments:

  • Does this give you a better understanding of the relationship between food and sexual function?

  • What is your experience with improving your sex life through food?

Foods that produce nitric oxide in blood vessels, like kale, watermelon, and beets, support both heart and sexual health.